Jealousy is different it is an altogether negative, regressive state of mind. This is an example of an envious response that leads not to jealousy, but rather to motivating, progressive thinking. You envy them, and thus you come up to them and ask them what their secret is, and maybe even whether you can join them and do what they do. For example, say one of your friends is doing a workout routine and has gotten into really good shape. But this feeling does not necessarily lead to jealousy, you see you can be envious of somebody’s situation and make common cause with them. You get a wishful feeling inside, like you want what they have. The difference between envy and jealousyĮnvy happens when you see somebody else experiencing something you’d like to have. This holds a lot of hope for those other folks who tend to become prisoner to jealousy’s grip: it’s not an inevitable process. Such people do not have shallower emotions rather, they have an inbuilt understanding that channels negative emotions away from feelings of jealousy. I want to correct some assumptions here – because it is obvious, if you look around you enough, that there are people who do not ever really feel jealousy. If you don’t ever get jealous, it must mean that you can turn your emotions on and off at a whim, and thus no more organic drive exists to feel. Without jealousy and other associated negative involuntary emotions, the relationship might as well end, it is said, because then you have no more passionate divine spark. You know that you are in love, it is said, when you feel tremendous pangs of jealousy about that special love that you share being shared with somebody else. Some people even think jealousy is a healthy thing, because it means that you care. Many people even go so far as to call jealousy an innate emotion, as though, no matter what, we will always feel some jealousy sometimes, and there’s nothing we can do to help that. Jealousy is one of those demons that just seems to take everything over when it is felt – even when you know on the inside that your jealousy doesn’t make sense somehow, it often still rips through and takes you hostage.

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